Threesome is the top one sexual fantasy for most men and some women. However, the number of people who really have had threesomes is relatively small. The reasons vary. Threesome means adding a third person into their sexual life. Not all people are okay with sharing their partner with another person. Some even not okay with the idea. In most cases, there is only one person in a couple who have such fantasy, usually the male part. Being afraid of the reaction of their partner, they choose to remain it as a fantasy. They don’t want to risk their relationship by telling the truth. Well, for some people, they are more curious about it. They told their partners. There are two directions for this. Either their partners accept it and they have a threesome together, or they cannot accept it and they don’t get to have a 3som together. However, there is also another possibility. Their partners pretend to accept it and they have a threesome together. Usually, this is the worst scenario. The result comes no good in most cases. That is why I am telling you that you should have couple dating for your own, not for your partner.
Many people try to impress and satisfy their partner, so they agree to have threesomes with their partner even though they don’t know for sure if they can handle it when seeing their partner with another person. They think things that make their partner happy are also good for their relationship. However, what they don’t know is that they are also an important part in this hookup relationship, whose feeling should also be taken into consideration. They are just so used to give, even they know it would hurt their feelings. As a matter of fact, a good relationship should be one that is managed by both parties, but not just one. If one party makes endless concessions while the other one takes constantly, it will eventually break the relationship into pieces.
Threesome is more serious than other matters in daily fet life. If you are a strict monogamous person, adding another person to share your partner with might be something that you cannot accept and understand. There is no need to persuade yourself into it if you really cannot handle it. Being polyamorous is not something you can turn to. For some people, it is just impossible. If you force yourself into it, you might not be able to survive when seeing your partner with another person. You might get jealous and angry with it. Even if you finish it, it will be a permanent shadow in your mind. It is irreparable and irreversible. If you are thinking about retaining your partner with a threesome, it will be just as useless as giving him a baby. You might as well talk to him directly about your issues.