Last summer, I dowmloaded a dating app and started to use it. After two day, I met a nice guy who was gentle and had a good job. I thougth maybe I should ask him out and had a hookup date. But after this experience in dating app, I hope to give some advice to girls.
The first tip is not to trust the first impression so much. That is to say, you should meet a man at least twice and have a judgement for him. This hookup dating app had a specific target-marriage. Basically, users need pass through the real name system. And the job was also needed. So, I felt it might have more high-quality users. The first time I used this app, I met a boy. He said he was a lawyer. I thought he was not lying because he liked to say something about the law. I felt good if I had a lawyer boyfriend. Then half a month later, I asked him if he was free on the weekend, and he promised me to have dinner. The first time I met, I felt it was very good to talk with him. He was the first person I met from this chatting apps.
Although he was not very humorous, he took care of my feelings. So, there was a second meeting. We went to the cinema. But things were often unexpected. We saw a touching love film, But he talked about women's breasts more than four times, and I said it's not what a gentleman should do. He was silent because he always gave me the impression that he was a learnd gentleman. Besides, he was eating popcorn very loud. I reminded him to keep it quiet because everyone needed to be quiet when watching movies. He pretended not to hear. On the whole, for the second date, I was very unhappy. The most important thing was that, when I left, he kissed me withour my premession, I struggled. And I said if he did this again, I would call the police. In the end, I ran away. Therefore, from my story, don't trust the first impression too much. It may be someone else's disguise.
The second tip is not to confirm the relationship without meeting. I met a boy in this hook up dating app. He told me he worked in a computer company. I didn’t care this too much. He kept chatting with me for one month. I didn’t have much feeling about him, but I knew he was working for chatting with me. I told him directly that Ihe was not my type and he said it was OK. So when he asked me out for KTV, I agreed. I was also worried about my security so I asked my sister to go with me. When I came here, his friends greeted to me and said whether I was his girlfriend and I said no. His friends thought I was telling jokes and they told me this guy told them I was his girlfriend. I didn’t know what to say. I was kindly speechless. And I asked him, he said he thought I agreed to be his girlfriend. But I never did. Then, I never talked to him because I didn’t know if he had paranoia which was kind dangerous.
Hope the two tips are working for girls.